Hi friends

Its been 5 months for me in Bangalore. It’s been quite a journey. The hardest were the first two months when it was like leaving my second home Goa to come in the strange mundane land of Bangalore. The stay in Bangalore in these months has been blurring. I have never been outside my home.....away from my parents and Goa was my home outside home. It was not easy for me for the first six months in Goa as these were time when I really really and badly missed my home... My mum and my room. But sooner or later I had learned to build my own dream castle here in Goa. The person I loved most talking to Ashish Sarda was the unique character in my life. I sometimes did not like to be with him but somehow I always wanted him around me when I was down. I did looked upto him when I was down. He really helped me come out of some of my lowest point. I am able to share anything with him. Its like he is always there good times as well as mostly in the bad times when I do not know what to do and where to go. No wonder he pulled me out of the two months here in Bangalore. He would know the exact occasion when I am about to cry or when I had called him after crying. He was there when I was too happy and wanted to share any good news and he was also there when I had the worst news of my life. It did not ever felt judgmental or ever had a second thought about talking to him about anything. Its just that he makes you comfortable about yourself. And he has an opinion about everything in this worldJ

I can never say what those moments worth to me.............

Its time captured in immorality preserved like the precious October azure ....a retreat from the mundane world.............


....................like the soft music of silence

the compassion of being....................

CHANGE !!

It is a very famous Hindi proverb....................................................

All things arise, Suffer change,

And pass away.

This is their nature. Nothing perturbs you,

Nothing hurts you.

You become still. It is easy.

Every life has a purpose. Change is inevitable part of our life.It takes a lot of courage to release the familiar and seemingly secure, to embrace the new. But there is no real security in what is no longer meaningful. There is more security in the adventurous and exciting, for in movement there is life, and in change there is power.Life is a process of becoming, a combination of states we have to go through. Where people fail is that they wish to elect a state and remain in it. This is a kind of death.Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time. We are the ones we've been waiting for. We are the change that we seek.The important thing is this: To be able at any moment to sacrifice what we are for what we could become.Change does not necessarily assure progress, but progress implacably requires change. Education is essential to change, for education creates both new wants and the ability to satisfy them.Everything you now do is something you have chosen to do. Some people don't want to believe that. But if you're over age twenty-one, your life is what you're making of it. To change your life, you need to change your priorities.Change means movement. Movement means friction. When you change the conflicts

To change one's life, start immediately, do it flamboyantly, no exceptions !!


LIFE


Hi, friends this is a very beautiful poem by Michael Charles Messineo. He writes amazing. this poetry signifies many aspect of our life. It was one of the writings that will really help you to know yourself, to gather yourself when you are not sure what to do or where to go. It is written is crisp easy to understand language that reaches the troubled heart.

Life's too short to dwell on things
that pull and tear on your heart strings
so park those thoughts that make you worry
and create new goals to which you'll hurry.

Make your list of things to do
that always seemed not part of you
make yourself explore unknowns
write down your thoughts dig up those bones

Take a step toward things that scare you
Show who's boss while mind prepares to
overcome what seems unrealistic
before you lose it and go ballistic

Do something different every day
and watch as life shows new path ways
Life's too short to dwell on things
that pull and tear on your heart strings.

WHEN YOU DREAM !!

When you Cry be sure dry your Eyes
Coz Better days are sure to come
When you Smile be sure Smile wide
and don't let them know what they have Won
When you Walk, Walk with Pride don't show the Hurt inside
Coz the Pain will soon be gone
WHEN YOU DREAM, DREAM BIG
LIKE THE OCEAN BLUE
COZ WHEN YOU DREAM IT MIGHT COME TRUE
When you Laugh , Laugh out loud
Coz it will Carry you along
When you See, See the Beauty all around
and in Yourself, It will help you feel OK
When you Pray, Prey for strength
It will help you when trouble come in Your Way
WHEN YOU DREAM, DREAM BIG
LIKE THE OCEAN BLUE
COZ WHEN YOU DREAM IT MIGHT COME TRUE

Success.....

If you get up in the morning
And go to sleep at night
And in between do what ever you like

consider yourself successful.


To laugh often and much, to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children, to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends, to appreciate beauty, to find the best in others, to leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition; to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded

When the going is not easy
still you have the belief in heart that you will get through it
then you are successful

Perseverance

When things go wrong
As some times they will
Do not lose heart
And get on with it
Great people always strain
As they know hard work and perseverance never go in vain
Gather yourself from the ashes of ruin
To turn your life into the greatest music
That everyone hence will want their life to be tuned with..........

Common Sense........

Nothing is more fairly distributed than common sense: no one thinks he needs more of it than he already has.
Common sense is the collection of prejudices acquired by age eighteen.

The philosophy of one century is the common sense of the next.

It is a thousand times better to have common sense without education than to have education without common sense.

Why so much stress to common sense?
JustBcozz it is the only thing that sustains life on earth. The very feeling in ourselves that tells us what to do in what way. When a child is born he has no idea about anything. His basic instinct is to survive. He learns slowly. The things that helps him to survive is the common sense. The simple difference between food and non food, danger and fear, friend and stranger.
Some things come naturally to us, isn't it. Some things comes naturally to some people only. But the same things comes naturally to people of other generation. That is common sense. It is our basic instinct the natural tendency. But as we all are unique we can not have the same instinct and tendency.

JOKES............

Having the hearty laugh stimulate by the words is the best relief for the stressed out life. Seeing the humorous side of life is the gift that can cheer up a person in toughest times. Jokes have been the partner of the human in their misery and joy all through out the ages. Some jokes are perennial. Jokes tells us about the customs, culture and the life of the age. Jokes are always subtle,it hides beneath its humorous exterior the complexity of life. It is a gift to understand the double message that they give. It tells us a lot about the person telling the jokes. It reflects his thoughts, emotions, attachment, sense of humor, behaviour and his total personality. Next time you hear a joke you know what to expect from that person. Jokes have varied uses. It is used for ice breaking on many occassion. It is used to lighten the mood and sometimes to give heavy message in a lighter tone..............
Its a way of life. The inevitable change in the society and culture is first reflected in the types of jokes prevalent in at that time. That is why when you open the newspaper you search for the cartoons telling the jokes abut the recent happenings. These writers has very important role to play in shaping the society.